Let me tell you how it all happened. To my surprise a very beautiful girl sends me an interest. As usual I thought it might be a joke and I chose not to respond to the interest. After almost a week of not responding, I thought why not just give it a try, what do I have to lose. I responded to her and in no time we started messaging each other and then we went on to phone calls. The first conversation we had over the phone was very very funny. My phone had a problem and I didn't understand what she was saying. I heard her say 'I am not a nice person' and I being as polite as I can, said 'Let me be the judge of that'. She didn't understand what I meant and she repeated again that "I am not a nice person". I said ok but don't you think we should get to know each other and I make that opinion my self?. She could not make sense of what I am saying and we left the topic, and started talking in general about each other. After getting to know a bit more about her, I didn't see anything "Not Nice" in her, so I asked her why do you say that you are not nice. She bust out laughing and laughed for quite a while. What she actually said was 'I am not a night person' and that me burst out as well. I think that incident made us loosen up quickly, it didn't take too long for us to figure out that we are made for each other. I met her parents and asked for her hand in marriage, they liked me (fortunately) and rest as we say is history. Thanks shaadi.com enough for helping me find a partner, Thank you. Navin & Vickki