Just like that...I first tried the basic membership and searched for the partner and when I got enough responses then i went for the membership and started meeting them. My wife was someone whom I had to wait for months to get a reply. In the end i did get a call but not before I met a few girls thru shaadi.com. After that all went in the way it is supposed to be, and now we are married or u can say lost our freedom but happy being tied up to each other. Thanks to Shaadi.com